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In the midst of glowing reviews of several Belizean resorts recently awarded by renowned travel site, Trip Advisor, the country is also receiving international exposure for two week-long swingers' parties set to be hosted on a private island off the coast of Dangriga. The UK's Daily Sun, this week, reported that a US- based travel agency, Dream Ple...

Aside from an occasional towel, you'll be hard pressed to find a stitch of fabric on the hundreds of people lounging in and by the pool at this Jamaican resort. For the most part, people congregate in groups in the water or the swim-up bar, chit-chatting and swapping stories as any vacationers might, though perhaps with a bit more revelry and boist...

The more of it I read, the more I am fascinated with sex research. It takes courage to be a sex researcher: you need to convince people to participate - and convince funding agencies to help pay for it all. Because sex is still such a big taboo, both these things are more difficult than it seems. I'm fairly lucky to live in Canada, where sex resear...

As 2018 fast approaches, it's impossible to avoid the mandatory talk of resolutions. Sure, the new year marks a time for new beginnings, but the "fix it" mentality can seem ... kind of overwhelming, am I right? This is especially true for people like me who don't like a lot of rules. While there's an obvious upside to making healthier choices (thin...

  MARRIOTT HOTEL SUED  12/28/2017 12:20 AM PST Marriott Hotel Sued for Kicking Out Woman Who Booked Room on Swingers' Floor Can't say we've heard this before -- a woman is suing Marriott for allegedly kicking her out of one of their hotels 'cause she was a non-swinger on a swingers' floor ... yup. Hale Lewis says she booked a 3-day stay a...

We all know that staying in shape keeps us healthy and predicates good sex in a number of ways - you look sexy, you feel happier, etc. But what about toning your body from the inside? As it turns out, women especially have some important sexual muscles they should be flexing if they want a healthy sex life. In 1952, Dr. Arnold Kegel invented a seri...

"Would you like to play Cupid?" read the job post. Completely unqualified, I landed a job co-managing a 10-page section of the Philadelphia Weekly and more than 500 singles. From a cubicle high above Rittenhouse Square, I had a blast fielding snail mail and hard copy photos from a sea of self-declared Tom Cruise wannabes and Sharon Stone look-alike...

There will be sex with robots. There, I said it. If we're going to talk about the future of sex, we may as well get that out of the way right up front. But while robot sex is certainly a very sensational aspect of what the future of sex might look like, the thing that most people don't realize is that there's so much more to sex tech (yes, it's a t...

This year, Pornhub celebrated its tenth birthday. To commemorate the occasion, they released some fascinating data on trends in users' viewing habits. Among other things, over 10 million videos have been posted on the site to date. Also, Pornhub now receives 75 million (!) visitors per day, and the average user spends about 10 minutes there per vis...

We've been swingers, or "in the swing lifestyle," as it's called, for six years. I'm a middle-aged, heterosexual female in a long-term, committed relationship with a middle-aged, heterosexual male. Yes, we are in a committed relationship and openly enjoying sex with people outside of our relationship. And, no, there's no jealousy or drama. The diff...

In her article Why We Should All Be Talking About Sex A Lot More Often, sex educator Kate McCombs interviewed other sex educators to get their take on the importance of talking about sex. Linda Kirkman's response reflects the reasons I think encouraging older women to talk about sex is important: "to normalize talking about sex and sexuality, to re...

It's normal to feel both exhilarated and nervous at your first swingers' party or orgy. Group sex shatters a lot of our norms and expectations around sex, so it's easy to get lost in thoughts of "how is it going to go?" To make your experience more fun and less worrisome, I've compiled a few basic etiquette rules surrounding group sex that you shou...

"The most common sexual concerns of women of all ages include loss of sexual desire, problems with arousal, inability to achieve orgasm, painful intercourse, negative body image, and diminished sexual desirability and attractiveness." Sexual Function in Elderly Women: A Review of Current Literature, archives of National Institutes of Healtfh . We a...

One of the secrets of a better sex life is having more sex. (Practice makes perfect!) Yet, aside from this obvious wisdom, is there anything not sexy that you can do that actually improves your sex life? Sure. Plenty. Here are a few suggestions. Get Therapy Particularly for long-term couples, therapy has plenty of benefits. Talk therapy can help to...

Undoubtedly, heading out on a cruise is one of the best ways in which to enjoy a vacation. However, one would be lying to his or herself if they were to say that cruising is without its annoyances. Like it or not, there are just some things about heading out on a cruise ship that can get under the skin of even the most veteran of cruisers. If you'v...

Adolescence is a traditionally tricky minefield to navigate for parents. Having "the talk" is the easy part compared to watching your precious little baby blossom into a sexually active teenager. There is no absolute right way to discuss sex, but there are a whole slew of wrong ways that can damage a young person's ability to grow into a sexually h...

Last fall I had dinner with someone who, up until that point, I had only known online. We swapped details and I noticed how her face lit up when she spoke of her partner. She was clearly madly in love and blissfully happy. A few minutes later, as she was talking about an upcoming trip to visit another partner, I felt an urge to ask how that worked ...

Every gal would like to have her cake and eat it too, but is that really possible within the confines of a committed relationship? Some couples think so and, as a result, appear to live quite happily with each other while still having sex with other people. While hard-and-fast statistics about open relationships are hard to come by, some experts es...

Have you noticed there seems to be a lot more talk about nonmonogamy these days? There's been an steady rise in the number of people who identify as polyamorous over the last decade. More and more people are exploring options other than monogamy. But what does this mean for each of us? Tristan Taormino's Opening Up reminds us that there are "many w...

When's the last time you saw a TV show or movie present a functional, happy consensual non-monogamous (or polyamorous) relationship? I must say, I can count the number of these relationships on one hand. Popular media, self-help, pop-psych writing, and even scientific research has held a monogamous bias for a very, very long time. According to a re...

Facts about sex toys...well, here's one for you: The sex toy industry is worth about $15 billion per year worldwide. That's a lot of dildos, people.  But while statistics show that more than half of Americans have used a sex toy and you can now find them in many drugstores, pleasure products still aren't quite mainstream. Depending on your aud...

Traveling with sex toys? Take precautions to avoid an embarrassing airport scene. You may lock your luggage when you travel, but rest assured that what's in there isn't entirely private. Just ask Jill Filopovic , a blogger at Feministe. In 2011, she took a flight and packed her vibrator in a checked bag - only to open it and find a note from a TSA ...

For the last two years I've been involved in a long distance relationship that has involved some fabulous sex. There are a whole lot of things about this relationship that contribute to the sex being fabulous. My partner is wonderful, we're both super-communicative, between us we own the equivalent of a small sex toy shop and we aren't afraid to tr...

The so-called male G-spot is allegedly the source of mind-blowing orgasms — but are they good for your health as well? The prostate is a mysterious and oft-misunderstood organ. A walnut-size gland found between a man's bladder and his rectum, the prostate's main function is to produce fluid that is expelled as part of semen during ejaculation; it's...

1. Aquarius Every Aquarius has what it takes to write erotica. Since they are artists at heart, they are able to come up with creative scenarios and write detailed scenes. They won't text you something simple like, "I'm horny." They will weave an entire story meant to turn you on. They will make you feel like you're really in bed with them. 2. Arie...

FBI agents made an astonishing discovery this morning while executing a search warrant at the residence of a Houston mortician: 3,178 embalmed human penises. The Federal Bureau of Investigation suspected 54-year old Dave Murray, an employee of the Harris County Morgue, of being implicated in an organ trafficking network. Investigating several repor...

Most guys want to know how to have the perfect cock that all the ladies love. The truth is that there are a lot of things to consider.When it comes to the perfect cock, there are a lot of things to take into consideration. Firstly, women aren't all the same. We like different things. And that means what makes a great piece of equipment for one woma...

Have you ever wondered, "What makes a pretty pussy?" Any beaver is beautiful, but if you want to be more confident about it, try these simple steps. Pussies come in all sizes and forms: hairy, neatly trimmed, smooth, bumpy, floppy, lopsided, brown, pink… Actually, for the opposite sex, it doesn't seem to matter at all. Because for guys, seeing a va...

You thought that there was only one type of vagina? Think again. In fact, there are five different types of vaginas that you need to know about.As someone who has a vagina, I was pleasantly surprised by learning that there were five types of vaginas. If you're a female, you've probably spent some time staring in the mirror, thinking, is my vagina n...

Whether your sex life is lackluster or you need a change of pace, wow your guy in the sack with these 10 awesome  sexual positions to impress your man. When it comes to sex it's all about variety, comfort, experimenting, and fun. It's so easy in any relationship to f all into a bit of a pattern. If you both have busy lives outside the bedroom ...

Asking a girl, "Want to sit on my face?" may not be the best way to ask her to engage in some sexy time. Here are 6  reasons why she might turn it down. Do you find yourself repeatedly asking your girl if she wants to have some sexy sitting time on your face, only to be met with bored or embarrassed nos? Reasonably, this may leave you beyond p...

Many men think they can lick a pussy, but there's a difference between thinking you can do it and actually knowing how to lick pussy. So many women have encountered a guy that says he's the best pussy eater but when it comes down to it, it's a nightmare. Jackhammering our pussies with your tongue isn't going to do the job. I know she's probably moa...

JC's TIP: If you are headed out to a lifestyle club you should treat it as date night, not only with your partner but potential hookups at the club as well.  You're about to go out on a date. You've showered, shaved and picked the perfect outfit. But is that all you really need to do, to wow your date? Men are inherently confident when it come...

While it takes a flash of skin and a dress that leaves little to the imagination to turn a guy on, women have more innocuous turn-ons . Men are simple. Take a beautiful face, a sexy body, a warm smile, and she's already halfway towards being a man's dream girl. With women, it's difficult. You can be the most dashing gentleman on this side of the gl...

Facial Hair. Chest Hair. Back Hair. Boys, if you want to find out what women really think about your manscaping routine, pay very close attention. Manscaping has been taking the world by storm and growing in popularity within the last year–something I am actually grateful for. But the one question that has been plaguing nearly every guy's mind, sin...

Confidence is never out of style, and it's your golden ticket to the dating scene. Learn how you can exude confidence with your body in 10 easy steps! Confidence – it's something both men and women claim to be a huge turn on in a partner, yet so many people are lacking it! Confidence is key when it comes to landing your dream job, or acing your fir...

Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few naughty tricks? Here's 50 of the sexiest kinky ideas and kinky-er ideas for a sexy relationship. Lust is fickle. You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month.And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to and fro motion. Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a ne...

Fantasized about having an orgy? Curious about BDSM? Life is meant to be lived, so don't be too embarrassed to turn  your sexual fantasies into reality. Sexual fantasies are meant to stimulate your senses, break down barriers, and offer you a risk-free glimpse into a  world fueled with intense energy unlike any other. It is a place where ...

There are good girls that guys want to introduce to their mother.And then there are bad girls that every guy secretly desires and fantasizes about.Now every guy knows bad girls are bad news.After all, bad girls are unpredictable, frustrating and fickle.And they're not the best of partners for a long-term relationship either. But yet, there's someth...

As many as one out of three men may be affected by premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives, according to the Mayo Clinic. The website Ask Men states that premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates too early or before the woman orgasms. Erectile dysfunction occurs when a man becomes sexually excited, but hi...

A healthy physical relationship is an important part of any couple's life. But even the most loving couple needs to spice things up occasionally. It may be the case that you're one of those couples for whom every aspect of the relationship has always been perfect. You get along well, you have similar likes and dislikes, and your interaction in the ...

  How to Give Her a Massage That Will Leave Her Begging For More  Your 4-step guide to rubbing her the extremely right way When you give your better half a rubdown, go slow. That's the massage message from Susan Findlay, director of the North London School of Sports Massage."Use the heel of your hand to make continuous fluid movements and...

​ Don't freak out over U.S. travel warning about Cancún and Los Cabos. Here's why. The U.S. State Department's new travel advisory warning Americans about the risks of traveling to Cancún and Los Cabos should not be taken too seriously. Compared to some crime-ridden U.S. cities — or the deaths from recent U.S. mass shootings — these Mexican resorts...