How to Train a Hotwife
I personally never needed 'training' so you could call me a Natural Born Hotwife, but I still needed a little encouragement here and there. Based on our experience in the lifestyle overall, I think I've got a fair idea of what makes a woman want to experience the pleasure of other men.
With that in mind, I've listed some points on how to train a Hotwife. Before I go on though, I should mention that these points are more useful for those seeking a Stag/Vixen dynamic of Hotwifing, as opposed to Cuckolding. The latter deserves a separate post which I'll look at writing
Also, each point just about needs its own post so if you find this overview useful, please let me know and I'll extrapolate!
What is your motivation?
It's important to ask yourself why you want to see your wife have sex with other men. If your reason has anything to do with feelings of sexual inadequacy and you don't want to become a cuckold, then I urge you to address those personal issues before entertaining Hotwifing. I would also to some extent suggest the same thing if you are experiencing other sexual issues with your partner, be it mismatched sex drives or lack of sexual intimacy. If
What are her views on sex?
There is no point dropping the Hotwife bomb on your wife if your current sex life is conservative. Whether through religious indoctrination or cultural upbringing, if your wife has strong traditional views on sex and marriage, it will be an uphill battle. The only proverbial light at the end of the tunnel is if she is naturally horny and loves sex. No ancient book can suppress a strong sex drive forever! If you are fairly confident that your wife would enjoy exploring the pleasure of one or more extra cocks then it's something you can work with. If not, I would start closer to home and spice up your one-on-one sex life first.
Nurture the sex goddess within
I've personally had many phases of feeling unsexy and dowdy and it's taken time to lure the sex goddess out to play. For many women, it's entirely normal to feel negative about themselves sexually, particularly if motherhood and/or work life saps every last shred of energy from them. Female sexuality easily gets shelved so if you want your wife to feel sexy, you need to help her find time to feel sexy. Make sure she has that one hour during the weekend to enjoy herself, whether that's through running her a bath or setting up a reading area for her to sit down with some good music and wine, and perhaps a naughty novel. Don't pressure her to have sex during this time. It's all about her. If the sex goddess comes out and wants to play with you (and your hot Brazilian
Sell the adventure
The tricky part of Hotwife Training is convincing your wife why she should get on board. What's in it for her? Think of all the reasons why your partner may want to have sex with another man. Some Hotwives simply love the thrill of the hunt with new prey. Others love being watched by their husbands. Most women want to explore sexually to some extent (how else did 50 Shades sell so well?) so all you need to do is find out how you can enhance the desire to explore. If your partner is turned on by other men looking at her then tell her you
Facilitate but let her take charge
If your partner starts to show interest in Hotwifing then it's indeed a positive step but
Reassure your wife that you love her
Be patient. Hotwives don't emerge overnight.
As much as you may want a magical potion that drives your wife insane with lust for other men, there is no such thing. You need to remind yourself that the best outcome will arise from a gradual introduction to the lifestyle. A booze-