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Grab the shaft. Oral isn't just about working your mouth. Grab hold of your man's shaft and stroke it while you blow. It's like giving him two for the price of one. But don't worry, even though this is technically giving yourself two "jobs" to do, it's hardly going to feel like work — or at least it doesn't have to.
Different strokes for different folks. Up and down. How boring. First, lubricate. If you're going to be involving your mouth, avoid lotion and lube. Use your spit. Then, when you grab hold of his situation, try out some different motions. The "carousel swirly motion," most of all, does wonders. If you're not sure how to pull that off, just imagine your hand moving horizontally like a carousel and vertically like a swirl at the same time. It basically does the job for you.
Work the tongue. Your tongue is a magician, so much so that it may as well have graduated from Hogwarts. So harness its skills. Work that wand. The tongue is the strongest muscle in the human body, and now is your time to prove its worth.
Careful with those balls. Don't let those two hanging fruits scare you (they're more afraid of you than you are of them). That's because they couldn't possibly be any more sensitive than they already are. So, while making them feel amazing will hardly take any more than a simple tongue or finger graze, any more pressure could make him feel as though you used his balls as punching bags.
Be careful around the tip. As much as the tip of his penis might look like it's a helmet, it's not. In fact, it's quite the opposite. When you're tonguing the tip, do it carefully. The nerve endings there aren't kidding around, and one wrong tap can send him over the edge (but not in a good way).
Lick everywhere. Oral isn't just reserved for his genitals. His nerves below the belt extend well beyond them their limited proximity. So explore. Embrace the full package.
Don't rush him. This is a moment to savor (for him, at the very least). When you try rushing yourself, he's going to notice. Not only will this take him out of the mood, it might even make it harder for him to finish, regardless. It's a catch-22 — but an avoidable one.
Moan. This isn't going to apply to all men, but the courtesy is appreciated. Sex is all about passion, and passion is culled from confidence. When you moan, you're vocally letting him know how much you want — nay, need — him, especially since it's going to be slightly difficult to form any words.
Focus on the frenulum. Every man has his one spot that always gets him going, but it's nearly guaranteed that the spot on the opposite side of his "head" is going to appreciate any focus dished its way. Even the simplest brush from the tip of your tongue can bring him closer to
Be the ball(s). As long as you're careful, don't avoid his balls. With a well-placed hand on his staff and a gentle tongue on his balls, you may as well invite him personally to the ultimate oral utopia. You're covering all the grounds, and doubling his treat, so to speak. Don't leave his buddies by the wayside.
Calm down after he finishes. When your man reaches climax, his nerve endings are firing off like sex firecrackers. This means that he's going to be sensitive. Too sensitive even. Bordering on the verge of uncomfortable. So, especially if you had your mouth wrapped around a particular area while he finished, try to avoid the sensitive spots. Hold it, sure, but do little more. At least until his business returns to normal (which shouldn't take too long).
Grab those thighs. When you're going down on him, get involved. His thighs, believe it or not, are actually incredibly sensitive, and they will never say no to loving. Rub them. Squeeze them. Kiss them. It doesn't only feel good for him, it makes it seem as though you are fully invested in the moment.
Put on porn. Even if you're not crazy about porn, chances are your man probably is. Porn isn't just fun to watch, it will actually help him fire off his final shots. If oral is the main course, then porn is the seasoning. Bam!