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6 Things About Sexuality That I Have Learned From My Kinkiest Friends

1. What "real" bodies look like. If you've never been to a kink party or a BDSM dungeon, I've got news for you. You see a lot of flesh. People wear sexy and revealing clothing or no clothing at all. People have sex where you can watch. There are boobs and butts and dicks. Some belong to your lovers and friends and others belong to strangers. And wh...
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The 6 Things in Hotel Rooms That Make Sex HOT

For the last two years I've been involved in a long distance relationship that has involved some fabulous sex. There are a whole lot of things about this relationship that contribute to the sex being fabulous. My partner is wonderful, we're both super-communicative, between us we own the equivalent of a small sex toy shop and we aren't afraid to tr...
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Not Really My Thing: When Your Partner Reveals Kinks You Don't Share

Takeaway: You don't have to love your partner's kinks - or even participate in them. You do, however, have to be fair and respectful. "You know what I'm into?" your partner asks. "No, what?" you say, excited at the sexy possibilities. But then they say something you are so not into, and all that excitement drains away. It can be a very anxiety-prov...
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