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Let's talk about casual sex - that thing that good girls and old ladies don't do. It's just …. bad, sinful, and filled with emotionally fraught! I started to think about this when I made a list of 60 things I want to do, which includes casual sex, in this year following my 60th birthday. So, what's wrong with casual sex? Regardless of our "older" a...

When I wrote my semi-ranty piece about Hotwife Training earlier this year, I had completely underestimated the earnest desire of men who wanted to get their partners interested in Hotwifing. I initially assumed these husbands were solely motivated by their own sexual proclivities but as I discovered more about the lifestyle, I've come to understand...

As 2018 fast approaches, it's impossible to avoid the mandatory talk of resolutions. Sure, the new year marks a time for new beginnings, but the "fix it" mentality can seem ... kind of overwhelming, am I right? This is especially true for people like me who don't like a lot of rules. While there's an obvious upside to making healthier choices (thin...

What's it like being a swinger? How do they handle other people sleeping with their significant other? Do they feel turned on, insecure or downright jealous? We turned to Reddit to look for these answers and what we found was an entire community of swingers, all of whom were more than happy to disclose the many secrets of their lifestyle. Here, we ...

So, you finally realized everything you knew about being a swinger was a complete lie. You're welcome. And maybe after reading that story, you and your partner were like: "Well, since it's not all old people with robes, watching you with somebody else might be kind of exciting..." Or maybe not. But either way, if you're even remotely considering ge...

As a mom with three kids under the age of 10, I feel like the word "no" has become my default answer to everything , whether to my kids (no , you can't have candy for breakfast!) or to myself ( no, that bikini is not for you) or to my husband ( no , not tonight, honey — I'm too tired, I have to get up too early, I have too much work to do...) — no,...

Having sex with other couples can be really hot IF you're all on the same page. The swing lifestyle is nothing new. The concept of swingers and swinging has been around for years. The only difference is that people have started talking about it more openly. If you and your honey would like to get a little kinky and experiment with this sexual adven...

No matter what you call it — an open relationship, swinging, polyamory — one thing is definitely certain: Non-monogamous relationships are a very complex subject and no two couples are the same. But regardless of the specifics of the arrangement, communication and consent are vital, and it's important to discuss your limits , and to know your partn...

If you have a healthy relationship, swinging can provide numerous benefits when approached properly. It's a consciously adopted lifestyle that requires education, communication, patience , and understanding – qualities required for any successful relationship. Swinging is not for everyone, but for some couples , it's a welcome addition that spices ...

We've been swingers, or "in the swing lifestyle," as it's called, for six years. I'm a middle-aged, heterosexual female in a long-term, committed relationship with a middle-aged, heterosexual male. Yes, we are in a committed relationship and openly enjoying sex with people outside of our relationship. And, no, there's no jealousy or drama. The diff...

Undoubtedly, heading out on a cruise is one of the best ways in which to enjoy a vacation. However, one would be lying to his or herself if they were to say that cruising is without its annoyances. Like it or not, there are just some things about heading out on a cruise ship that can get under the skin of even the most veteran of cruisers. If you'v...

Some say money is the root of all evil; I say it's infidelity. Cheating on your significant other is the worst thing you can do to them in my book. It's dishonest, sneaky, disloyal, and just plain selfish. If you are a frequent reader of my writing, you may be asking right now, " Wait a second, don't you swing?" Yes, I am in the swinging lifestyle,...

Last fall I had dinner with someone who, up until that point, I had only known online. We swapped details and I noticed how her face lit up when she spoke of her partner. She was clearly madly in love and blissfully happy. A few minutes later, as she was talking about an upcoming trip to visit another partner, I felt an urge to ask how that worked ...

Every gal would like to have her cake and eat it too, but is that really possible within the confines of a committed relationship? Some couples think so and, as a result, appear to live quite happily with each other while still having sex with other people. While hard-and-fast statistics about open relationships are hard to come by, some experts es...

Have you noticed there seems to be a lot more talk about nonmonogamy these days? There's been an steady rise in the number of people who identify as polyamorous over the last decade. More and more people are exploring options other than monogamy. But what does this mean for each of us? Tristan Taormino's Opening Up reminds us that there are "many w...

JC's TIP: If you are headed out to a lifestyle club you should treat it as date night, not only with your partner but potential hookups at the club as well.  You're about to go out on a date. You've showered, shaved and picked the perfect outfit. But is that all you really need to do, to wow your date? Men are inherently confident when it come...

Giving an orgasm with one's fingers may seem like the easiest way to get someone off, but there's more to it than pushing someone's button, literally. At this point, everybody is probably aware that the concept of sex – not the just act itself – is not limited to just putting certain body parts in a hole and wishing for a climax. No. Sex has numero...

Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few naughty tricks? Here's 50 of the sexiest kinky ideas and kinky-er ideas for a sexy relationship. Lust is fickle. You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month.And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to and fro motion. Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a ne...

Fantasized about having an orgy? Curious about BDSM? Life is meant to be lived, so don't be too embarrassed to turn  your sexual fantasies into reality. Sexual fantasies are meant to stimulate your senses, break down barriers, and offer you a risk-free glimpse into a  world fueled with intense energy unlike any other. It is a place where ...

How can you make sure nothing goes wrong when you swap partners while swinging? How can exchanging partners be good for the relationship? Find out about the do's and don'ts of swingers right here. Although the majority of swinging will end up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with each other's partners, it isn't all about just that. Swinging ...

Want to know how to take nude pictures of your girlfriend or boyfriend? Here's everything you need to know while snapping your lover in the nude. So what are the things you should know? There are a few fine-print essentials that you ought to know and grasp before snapping in the birthday suit.Snapping pictures isn't really as simple as it seems.May...

If you're under the impression that being in an open relationship is just "cheating with permission," get that out of your head, stat. Ask anyone who's been in an open or polyamorous relationship, and they'll say it's about much more than just sex — it's a lot of communication, a lot of trust , and a lot of checking in with your own personal bounda...

A healthy physical relationship is an important part of any couple's life. But even the most loving couple needs to spice things up occasionally. It may be the case that you're one of those couples for whom every aspect of the relationship has always been perfect. You get along well, you have similar likes and dislikes, and your interaction in the ...

  When swingers are not on the same page, it could be a recipe for disaster. At some point in time, every swinger couple is new to the lifestyle. What happens when one of the couple is ready to go and the other is only ready to test the waters? Communication is always the most important way to ensure success not only in the lifestyle but in an...