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How do you meet other couples who might be interested in having sex with you?  On the Internet, obviously.

A new study from Gettysburg College, forthcoming in the June 2013 issue of Sexuality & Culture, investigates how swingers' -- or couple-swapping -- websites market their services.

Researchers analyzed 18 different websites that offer activities and services for swingers and how they're selling the swinging life. The names of the sites were not included, so we don't know which, if any, of the most popular sites -- SwingTowns, Swapper Net, Swing Lifestyle -- were analyzed. Unsurprisingly, each swinging site studied portrayed the swinger lifestyle in a positive light, avoiding the stigma attached to the subject and trying to make the swinger lifestyle sound as normal as possible. One site emphasizes that swingers are a diverse community of individuals. Many sites also use the size of their membership to prove that swinging is becoming more common. According to the study, one site claims to have over 30 million members worldwide, and another claims that 7,000 new members join each week. (DPT Note: We think that number is not accurate.  Swinging is growing, but many sites post false information to attract paying members.)

A common theme on the websites the researchers considered was privacy and security. The sites reassured users that their images and messages were "secure," and would never be used without their explicit permission. The researchers wrote that, because swinging is still considered a "deviant" lifestyle, privacy is crucial in marketing the lifestyle.

Finally, the research team found that every website appeared to target mostly male heterosexual users. Most images on the sites were geared to appeal to heterosexual men, suggesting that men are often the ones looking for information about swinging and for online communities where they might meet like-minded individuals.

In their paper, the researchers claim that this is one of very few studies focusing on how the lifestyle is marketed rather than swinging participants themselves. They write that the sites are designed in a very gendered way -- appealing to men rather than women. The paper states: "Earlier studies have posited more men as the aggressors in the pursuit of a swinging lifestyle when compared to their female partners... Thus, the findings suggest that these websites clearly know their potential clients and target men through the objectification and erotization of women."

In 2011, CNN claimed that there were 15 million swingers in the US. The results of a 2000 study suggested that swingers are happier in their relationships than the average monogamous couple -- 60 percent of participants stated that swinging had improved their relationship.

This article appeared on the Huffington Post website.

Are you interested in joining an online swingers community?  As this article mentioned, there are many of them out there: these researchers included 18 such websites in their study.  We recommend three specific websites because we know they are legitimate (they are not posting thousands of phony profiles) and because we know the owners of these websites.  Click on any of the banners in this article and join one two or all three!!  Most of our customers are members of at least two or three such websites.  Also, if you're a swinging traveler, you should definitely be a member of the World Exotic Travel Club, which is always free.

Are you looking for a web community that also produces fabulous swingers vacations?  Then you should check out Desirous Party.  Desirous Party takes two or three groups a year to such places as Hedonism II and Desire, and customers we send to any Desirous Party trip consistently report back that these were the best vacations every.  Check out the report from the last Desirous Party trip at Report on Desirous Party Trip to Desire Pearl or check out their next trip at Desirous Party Trip to Desire Pearl.

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