When you're on your next fabulous Dream Pleasure Tours swingers or lifestyle vacation or even when you're not on vacation but you just want to spice up your sex life, consider massage. This article is courtesy of our friends at Xstasy Magazine.
What better way to say I love you than to completely indulge yourself and your partner in a sensuous, fulfilling massage? It doesn’t cost alot and can be the most relaxing, romantic, tantalizing way to get closer to your partner. There are many types of massage and techniques to explore. Each one of our erogenous zones brings different levels of excitement and arousal to set each mood and desire. Whether you treat your partner to a massage by performing it yourself and acting as the "masseuse", or treating them to a session at a spa with a professional, a massage is the perfect gift, not only for Valentine’s, but anytime.
Here are three types of erotic and hot massages with information on what they are and how to do them. Enjoy!
Nuru Massage
This form of full body, nude massage is very popular in Japan. It uses not just lubrication, but a specific Nuru gel that, although mostly water based, is crafted from the extract of Nuri, a deep sea seaweed. This gel rejuvinates the skin and provides the most arousing, slippery sensation. The massage is usually conducted on an airbed because there is no friction on this surface and allows for the person giving the massage to continuously slide effortlessly across the entire body. The "masseuse" will cover his or her entire body with the gel. This, in itself, can make for an erotic part of the massage. Just watching your partner coat his or her whole body in the gel can be a total turn on that leaves your mind going wild with thoughts of what is to come. After it is applied, the fun begins. To ensure that all erogenous zones are touched, start with the hands and just begin rubbing down each body part. This slow, slippery motion can be entirely relaxing and get both people in the mood for the next step. The person wearing the Nuru gel first lays on top of their partner and begins sliding all over, up and down, slipping and sliding over every body part. This process is exciting for both the giverand the receiver. With proper pressure on the right spots and using all parts of your body, from elbow to leg to breasts, all moving up and down all over each other’s body,this form of massage is known to be the number one form of erotic massage that leaves both partners touching each other’s body parts that don’t usually meet. In most cases, this easy massage takes you both to new, erotic, intimate dimensions. This massage is a tantalizing experience that transfers positive, sensual energy to each other and will bring you and your partner close to the edge of losing control time and time again.
Erotic Massage
This massage is best done either completely nude, or in sexy lingerie. This will help to heighten both visual and physical arousal. Erotic massage is meant to work in a few ways. It can be used to relax and heal, but it also incorporates the artform of stimulating the body’s erogenous zones. While a therapeutic massage will completely avoid nudity and "private parts", an erotic massage will primarily focus on these areas. You bring your partner to complete attention in all sexual areas. This brings arousing, relaxing sensations...with a "happy ending". You begin by having your partner lay facedown and gently rubbing and stroking your partner’s body with an oil, or without. You want to gently tease and tickle each area of the body slowly, without missing one part. When you get to the middle area, apply oil to your hands or drip it down the arch of the back and rub with sexy, slippery hands. Don’t leave out the ass! The ass is extremely sensitive. For men or women who are completely freaked out by the idea of having their ass touched, just relax and enjoy the sensations that oil and a light touch can bring. As you move down the thighs and around that area, be sure to lightly touch from back to front. After your partner is completely relaxed, and by now turned on, roll them over and let the fun begin. Apply more oil and begin on their genitals. If a man is completely relaxed and the lube is working its way into all crevices and he is turned on, go after his prostate! That is where his g spot is. With plenty of lube...and cut finger nails, go inside and wait for him to make noises you have never heard him make before...that means you have found the spot!
Tantric Massage
The purpose of this massage is to stimulate every single sense. Through the use of breathing techniques, touch, mantra repetition, music and aromatherapy, every sense is on full alert. This massage takes a lot of practice and cannot be done by just any masseuse, however, even from learning stages, it can achieve what you are after. In an authentic Tantric experience, you would be required to "worship" your Tantric Goddess while she takes you step by step through a journey of elevated spiritual and erotic pleasure. This includes many things including eye to eye contact, mantra repetition and breathing that takes you into a trance-like state. The idea is that it takes you to a spiritual level while giving you a means of physical release. This massage can be very good for those who have problems with premature ejaculation because it focuses on breathing and control. When practiced properly, it can actually bring a man to the edge of ejaculation and then pull him back from that brink with controlled breathing.
Many people find Tantric Massage to be too intense. It can be very emotional but also very fulfilling and offers a true sense of erotic emotion-based pleasure. A professional Tantric Goddess studies this art for many years and has experience bringing back the ancient form of pleasure. The end result of this massage is the feeling of complete control of mind and body, with a sense of ultimate relief.
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